I believe most of the guys out there have the same opinion with me, that online dating sucks for most guys.
I'm not whining here basically, but im quite fed up with fact.
I met this malay girl on wechat, we have spoken for quite long conversation. She even told me how many bro & sis during the conversations (which i believe she's trusting me)
I also believe she's quite flirty because she typed ''hahahaha'' for most chat lines. (guess she likes me)
So, next day I talked to her, and I MANAGED TO ASK HER OUT given our distance is not far, she's working in a pet shop, I know it, and I told her:
''how about we meet each other cause' we're living quite near, i'm not used to type because there're no emotions behind it. Reply me if u want to meet up. ''
and she kinda give me excuse that ''oh... i'm shy,'' ''why don't we chat here''
I wasted no time to be honest w my intention, I said WTF? they wanted to reject a guy that's straight forward like me, lol! You don't plan to meet up this honest & handsome guy, that's your total loss!
I'm DONE with Online Dating? But I'm probably using it?
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Online dating is a waste of time. a
In there are 45% girls who want attention/approval, 45% girls who want to make friends only and 10% girls who genuinely seek a relationship.
So what are your chances of meeting the 10% of girls, almost none given the ton of guys seeking them and getting to them before you.
I find online dating a waste of time, doesn't work as advertised. -.-2
In my experience there's quite a few girls who don't seem to know what they want on those sites. They sign up and make a profile but then just want to chat? It took me almost two weeks to get one to understand that I was asking her out, and we went on one very boring date!
Don't give up, there's still some decent girls to be found among all the weirdos.2
I like girls from Asian countries because most tend to be virgins longer, and it is virgins I seek because I am one myself. I like shy girls too. Probably because i am low key.
Your preferences may just be different. But yes, online dating sucks.1
It does suck, I feel yourp pain. People online are wird is all I can say, your right that emotions don't come across chat easily. But if you give it some time, you can meet people, it may just take more than a day or two of chatting. Sucks I know1
that sounds quite familiar to me.0
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