I've never been looked at by a guy, no one ever approaches me even though I put myself together really well and I smile a lot. I'm not extremely extroverted but my friends always get hit on by guys even though they aren't either. This really hurts my self esteem because I am a bigger girl and I wanna feel appreciated as a woman. It really sucks hearing about all of the guys my friends have had to 'let down' because they're not good enough for them when I'm not even getting looked at.. What's wrong with me? Am I ugly?
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You can't possibly have never been looked at so lets strike that hyperbole right there. You've been looked at, probably more than you know.
Perhaps its the places you are hanging out or perhaps it is as simple as your weight; however, plenty of men date women who are heavier so weight alone can't be it. based on the little I see in your picture you are cute. perhaps you could try approaching guys or making more eye contact so that a guy knows you are interested... also keep in mind that guys can be intimidated to approach girls in large groups1