This guy that I've been seeing on and off for 8 months all of a sudden has stopped putting in effort. 5 months ago he really screwed me over and he had to work hard to get me back, and last week he said he always does this, he falls for somebody but then pushes them away. He said he still really wants to try but hasn't been putting in nearly as much effort. How do I make him put more effort in again? Do I just freeze-out and wait for him to do something drastic, or walk away completely?
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i get what you're talking about, you just want him to show his attraction towards you, right? for example: cute ish, hints of appreciation, and even reminders of how beautiful you are, sounds about right? if this is correct, there's a few things you have to consider; are there some important factors that come into play (money, family, anything thatll be a priority) are you a "dead fish" when it comes to the relationship? let me break this down for you; have you lost some skills when it comes to your game? lets me deconstruct this some more, have you gotten comfortable and stop dressing up, maintaining yourself, stop flirting, or even stop being supportive? here's another question, have you add more to you entitled list? im not point fingers at anyone but the bottom line is, if a man wants a woman to want him, he improves himself and while doing that the woman will want to want him and vise versa but this is just how i was raised to be like. best of luck0