Conflicting pieces of advice?

So I've asked for some advice about a girl I am dating. She's always busy (it's legit, she works late) and sometimes doesn't text back after a while. She texted me back after I asked how things were going.

A few girls recommended I text her and then ask her out a few days out.

A few guys and girls recommended I keep aloof and wait for her to text me and let her set up plans.

Completely different advice thoughts. Makes it a bit tough to decide what to do because this girl absolutely makes no sense to me.


Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 1

  • I hate games personally. The choice is yours but I perfer straight forward men who are honest.


What Guys Said 1

  • From my experience, if you text her then you could just be annoying her. So wait for her to text you. If she doesn't you can always just meet up in person and ask her out then if you feel like the times right. Don't rush things, that's all, hope this helps