I've actually asked the girl the question, and I said that I was "asking her out for lunch".
I don't know if I should have said it differently though. Should I have been obvious and said I was asking her on a date? I don't really know her that well though.
And any suggestions on what I should say for the second time if this first one works out?
- Mention to her that it's a dateVote A
- Don't tell her it's a dateVote B
She rejected me when I asked if we should start going out for real, since this was her first time and she didn't know me yet, but she seemed really happy. So should I say it's a date for the second time? Or would it be pressurizing her?
I'm afraid it might be over..
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good for you for the first date! :) is the girl younger than you? that may explain why she may be inexperienced. but hey, text her! (if you don't have her number, please get it :P). message her on facebook. or even whenever you see each other by chance and you both have the time, engage in conversations. she doesn't know you YET. but that can be easily changed just by talking to her! :) and then after knowing her a bit more, tell her (if you still want to date her) that you want to try a second date with her :)1
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