I met a new guy and it's been great. But none of my friends likes him. Here is the story my ex broke up with me out of blue and after few weeks he asked me to start over I still had feelings for him but needed time to heal so I said if we could just be friends first then there was a new guy came to my work (we're all co workers, my current bf working in a same office with my ex. My ex is bf's supervisor) there was nothing going on between new guy (my current bf) and me but somehow my ex thought new guy was flirting w me and ex asked me to not dating someone we both know I agreed cause I didn't want drama at work anyways. but my ex was getting crazy about me and new guy were getting close. I got annoyed cause I felt bad for new guy and it was him broke up w me. They work together as a team new guy said my ex was complaining everything what my bf do within work stuff. I was pissed off. I made clear being nice to new guy and ignored my ex. but the thing is everyone at work hated new guy, talks bad about him since my ex is great at work he has all the power to destroy new guy w any excauses so I had to protect him from my ex. New guy seemed having a hard time at work w my ex. It brought me to comport him then we got close friends finally he told me he had crush on me couldn't do much about it cause my ex hated us together. now we are secretly dating I lied to my ex we aren't and still couldn't tell the truth. then I realised my ex didn't do anything to harm my bf. it was all my bf's playing and lies to turn against my ex and get me. my bf is the one who never get his job done my ex had to cover my bf all the times. my bf is the nicest guy to me but none of his co worker likes him in many ways, my ex quite job cause there were rumour my bf made up and it gave my ex hard time to work. I didn't believe that was lies from my bf. When I was dating my ex we were good w everyone but now since I am dating this new guy no body even likes me and of course my bf has no one to talk
Do I owe an apology to my ex bf?
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Dump the new guy for being such a manipulator and lying to you, definately. But you don't OWE your ex anything. You can date who you want and do what you want. It's not his place to control who you see or not.0
Well, that's some drama. It wouldn't hurt to do so.0
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