i can't get a gf all my friends do it easily and it makes me question myself. A little about me: i am 6'4 i am bit scrwany i am an introverted loner who always feel extremely nervous around new people i never approach girls or pursue them of fear of rejection. Any advice please?
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When I was in high school I also thought something was wrong with me because no boy showed any interest in me. People used to tell me "just wait, the right guy will come along eventually." Well i waited and nothing happened. Then I went to college and I started to be proactive and approach guys. And then I finally started to go on a few dates!
People will tell you to wait, but you can't wait by doing nothing. You have to put yourself out there and meet people. I still haven't had a boyfriends, but at least I've tried it out with a few different guys. You can't just expect love to come to you if you stay in your room all day. Since all your friends have girlfriends already, ask them to be your wingmen when you go out. They can help you find girls and talk to girls. Ask them to help you approach girls.
As for the fear of rejection, well rejection is inevitable. and it's not just because of you. The hottest guy in the world could ask a girl out and still get rejected. Know that rejection is going to happen, expect to be rejected, and understand it's not a reflection of you. So you ask nine girls out and they all say no, but then the tenth says yes. You would never have gotten the yes if you didn't try asking out the other nine before. And that yes is worth the nine nos.1