Girls: Can I have some advice, please?
I'm a guy in college and I met this girl about four months ago. We started talking and I tried really hard not to lead her on because I wasn't at a good place with my life and I didn't feel like I could treat her like she deserved to be treated. I have a visual impairment and I can't drive & I didn't want to put her in the position of having a boyfriend who couldn't fully be there for her & I didn't want her friends to make fun of her for it. I guess I didn't do that well enough & I found tweets from her saying about how it was "true love" and how we have so much in common & that she looked forward to opening a text from me. I felt so bad for what I did and I cried myself to sleep for several nights. We hung out a few times just as friends and I really started to fall for her & realized that having her in my life could really change things for me. I've never had a girlfriend before, but I'd love for her to be my first. I think she's lost interest in me and it makes me absolutely sick to my stomach that I messed around and possibly lost a really good girl. I know I probably really deserve this, but I'm freaking out... We have SO much in common & I really love talking to her but I know I would probably shed a few tears & cry a bit if I told her to her face. The more time I spend with her, the more I like her, but I'm really nervous to tell her. What should I do? Should I just tell her in person or let her go?
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You were basing the situation on practical reasons (your head), whereas she was basing them on emotional reasons (your heart). Get that straight with her & say that you do indeed really like her, that you don't want that lapse to be a hindrance, & that you really want to move forward with her knowing how you feel.0