how to not want to cry when a girl calls you ugly on online dating?
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So... they just write to you and say you're ugly? or they tell you that that's a reason for not dating you? If they do that... that's low. What, are they 6 years old? Usually girls on dating sites just ignored me.
Wow. you got me there. I had no idea. You cut me deep. So deep. ::yawn::
I don't know... when a woman insults me CREATIVELY, then that's at least something. Phoning it in on the insults, aren't we? If a girl came up and said "You're ugly!" I'd just start laughing at her.
It's kind of like that scene from "Roxanne" with Steve Martin. "Big Nose? That's the best you've got?" Then he comes up with 20 really great "big nose" jokes and gets everyone laughing at the guy (and singlehandedly beats the crud out of him, too).
Besides... This comes from an ugly guy who has been ugly his whole life (I'm so ugly, when I was born they put tinted windows on my incubator), sometimes being physically ugly can be a good thing. We can't all look like Brad Pitt. It's still a lot of work to look halfway presentable, but I don't have to work out 8 hours a day, I don't do moisturizers, freak out over one pimple. I HAVE to get things on talent, hard work, and personality; I don't have to wonder if everything has been handed to me because of something out of my control.
Just seems a little sad at times... like I feel a bit of pity for them (in a way).
But... to make a long story shorter... now you've just weeded out some really horrible people. And you can move on, and not have to talk to them. You win!1