I'm in my mid-20s, and I have never been on a single date; the few times things have gotten physical were when lots of alcohol was involved and I was pretty much the only option for someone desperate. Not to sound conceited, but I think I'm pretty smart, kinda funny, and I am fairly "average" looking (brown hair, hazel eyes; not a supermodel, but I don't quite think I need a bag over my head; a little chubby but not obese; decent boobs...) However nobody has ever asked me out, and when I've tried to initiate things I get shut down. Of course you do not know me in person, but do any of you know any behaviors or looks I might be doing unintentionally that is sending a "no" message?
What am I doing wrong, that I can't get a date?
What Guys Said 3
It's got to be your interpersonal skills.
Your body language could be very closed.
You could be extremely quiet in social settings.
Did you take a speech class in college? Do you converse well will with strangers when you're at a party or social gathering? Are you okay pitching into a group discussion or do you have to have someone one-on-one to ever say anything?0
Judging from you picture you have cute eyes but the extra weight is making your chin look much worse that it potentially can. You have a lot of potential to be really cute.
Apart from looks, take a look at your body position at different times of day. Do you have your arms closed off and a look of frustration/annoyance on your face? Or are you smiling and have an open body language? Are you really tall?
If your chin was a bit more defined I'd definitely pay you a visit if I saw you in a bar or club. And my threshold of whom I approach is pretty high.0
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