Im a guy, i am not attractive, but i have friends (male and female) that tell me im a very nice person. I have never had a girlfriend, i've asked a lot of girls out, i do my best to be nice, friendly and kind, but all of them rejected me for my looks.
I like to know if there's even the slightest chance of someone liking me even if im not attractive?
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This is a very complicated question and why I think a lot of men get confused as to what women want.
It is very possible for a woman to not be jazzed about your looks, but become more attracted to you because of personality, yes. This usually only occurs when you have an open door however, and are around her enough to demonstrate that confidence and sense of humor.
So If she doesn't know you, and all she knows about you is your looks that don't turn her on, and you'll likely never be around her again without a phone number or date, she'll pass you by. If you work together, have the same group of friends, go to school together, etc. there's a better chance she'll get to see your personality and you can get in that way.
If however, she's on the fence about your looks (some things she likes just not totally sold), you'll have an easier time getting through that door while she decides if she likes you. This is why it's more common to see an attractive girl with an average guy, versus an attractive girl with an unattractive guy.
So bottom line, looks DO matter to extent. Girls feel it doesn't matter much to them because they can recall a guy who didn't totally turn them on at first, but his personality grew on them due to being around them a lot, or at least slightly attracted to him enough to give him a chance. They're not recalling the tons of guys who hit on them on the street who they were unattracted to and never gave a chance.2