so yesterday i asked her to be my girlfriend, she said yes, she is still recovering from the misscariage she had from our child. tomorrow i think she goes clubbing with this ""good friend"" of hers, a guy, i dont really like it but i know now, if i tell her i dont want her to do that, she probably gets pissed off with me. she probably even tells me when i tell her to be carefull because she is still recovering from a misscariage , that she isn't a child , and most likely block me on whats app. or start cussing. im thinking about , sending her a small text tomorrow, wishing her fun , and that i expect she doesn't do anything irresponsible, concidering she is with me, and she is recovering. i feel like i have to send her that text, im even willing to go that club, to keep an eye on her from a distance, seeing what she is up to. should i text her, knowing she gets angry, or should i just trust her... i find it irresponsible that she goes out with another guy, it hurts me, and if they both drink, and than what, how is she going to get home, she is all alone with him, or they have a car accident, or he does something to her. should i go that club myself? and keep a watchfull eye on her? jesus what is she even thinking, she has a 7 yo daughter.
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I would be pissed at you too! Honestly, if you feel you have to tell her to be careful and make good decisions, you aren't acting like a boyfriend, you're acting like a dad. I can understand why she would go out with other friends to a club... to have fun. Who wants to go clubbing with their dad? Going there and secretly watching her is stalker behavior. If you distrust her that much, cut her loose.0
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