my boss has been hitting on me for a while now. maybe for 4-5 days. its a new job. at first all the males in the office were and still are turned on by me, but now my boss is taking it to a new level. He keeps staring at me intensely.. and days ago tried to make me jealous about another woman. ever since then it's gotten weird. I had strong sexual fantasies about him two nights ago. In fact, I go so far as to feel he has done a lust/love spell on me b/c of the level of intense feelings i had for him and thoughts. literally, within hours i felt like I was in love with him and was masturbating terribly thinking about him. Prior to that he had hit on me just a few times. yesterday, he kept staring at me intensely, like worse than before and others noticed that he was hitting on me badly. He was acting really weird and going crazy trying to help me and ignore others... then strangely his wife came, and he said to her "jenn we've been to counseling right." kind of acting as if he was in an unhappy marriage. He also said to me "i like u a lot" while she was in the other room and i was questioning him about why he lost my customer. I felt this strong sexual feeling for him and took off.. b/c i didn't want to deal with it. now there is some kind of connection between us and it seems he notices how im feeling or what not.. and he didn't aggressively hit on me today he kind of backed off.. but he did touch my shoulder twice in a certain way.. he still keeps staring at me in a certain way and im not sure how to reciprocate. I want him really bad and its getting worse now. in two days now i feel like im in love with him tho im not. he was talking about how busy he was and said about his wife, 'yeah i said 'i'll take her to the park sunday" and bring the dog.. the way he said it as if she was a kid or something.. it seemed condescending. i guess what kind of signals is he trying to throw out to me and how do i reciprocate? since he's married im scared to tho he's made it obvious
How to reciprocate if someones hitting on you?
What Guys Said 1
STAY AWAY FROM YOUR BOSS!
The reasons for him hitting on you are irrelevant. Do not ever get involved with him. You are asking for nothing but trouble.
Lets say you and him got together.
Somewhere down the road, something at work will happen to benefit you. A raise or promotion could be anything.
This will cause you grief with your co-workers. Because no matter how hard you work and are deserving. They will always think and likely say to you. You only got that ___________, because you're sleeping with the boss.
If you start seeing your boss and the relationship ends. There is a good chance he will do things to upset your work life. ie Giving you more work that is impossible to complete. Giving unreasonable deadlines. Highly critical of all you do.
He's married. Don't partake in his cheating. He's low life scum.
A boss should NEVER make passes at a subordinate. It's an abuse of power and he's putting you in a difficult position. He's also an asshole.0
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