on the outside im kind of a douchebag, and i really sort of am deep down, but there's another part of me that does not believe that a girl can have a crush on him.
i think im good looking, smart, and funny, but i just can't wrap my head around the idea of a girl loving me.
in my mind i think, okay, she thinks im good looking now what? like i dont expect girls to see anything else in me other than cute/hot/sexy whatever and that is a problem. what can i do?
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I agree with the othet answerer, kill the douchbag vibe. you won't get a good girl like that. and by no means am I saying I'm someone really attractive person would go after, but if a cute guy came up to me but seemed like a douchbag, I'd turn away. being attractive can only get you so far. but keep tre confidence you have, that's good, just humble yourself a bit, that's all (:0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE