Help the guys have a better chance. What are some of the worst things that you think guys need to correct in order to have a better chance with a girl? An obvious one for me is that they have suck it up and to take a chance to ask you out.
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BE INTERESTING. I have dated so many guys whose whole worlds are embedded in video games. That's great for guys who want to hang out with other guys, but it's much rarer to find a girl who is that into them (it's not exactly supportive of girl gamers). Develop something else to talk about when she asks about you. Make sure you have a personality and opinions of your own you can share. Intelligent convos rock.
A lot of girls are suckers for well-dressed guys (think banana republic ad, but there are a lot of cheap alternatives around that look lovely). Just something that might be worth trying.
Show you care about the things she cares about. Remember the things she tells you and maybe educate yourself about those topics a little bit so you can hold meaningful conversation with her.
Be her rock. This will get her closer to you. Do not be afraid of the "friend zone". That is just a name guys give to a girl not being attracted to them. Be a supportive rock, not a pushover. Because when she's upset about her current flame being a jerk, then the first thing she's gonna do is start looking to see if his behavior is normal. And to do that, she's gonna start comparing him to other people and looking around a little. At people like you. Where she will conveniently find a guy who has already shown her greater kindness than he has and who could be boyfriend material. I promise this works, that's how I found my current love.0