I have been seeing this guy casually for over a month now and the last time we hung out Friday night I got really drunk and got mad at him and accused him of only wanting me for sex which isn't true he said we can wait as long as I want though I do know he wants it. I made a complete idiot of myself while I was drunk and I need to make it up to him. I texted him telling him I need to talk to him in person and he told me to come over tomorrow night. My plan is to say I need to talk to him and then lead him to his room and to have sexy lingerie on under my jacket and to not say anything at all to him and just start making out with him and then I plan on pleasing him completely if you know what I mean haha. I'm kinda nervous about this as I don't know if he's still pissed at how retarded I was Fri night and if I should talk with him first or just make him happy in this way haha what do you guys think? We haven't had sex yet and I've been reserved about physical contact for the most part so I think he might like this I don't know.
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First off sexy lingerie tends to suggest somethings happening to your body and I rather get the impression your plan is to focus on him.
Second, generally speaking you're correct to establish that beyond sexual stuff being something he wants and desires, its also a way to make him feel emotionally appreciated and wanted.
The problem hers is it may feel like a trap. You JUST accused him of only wanting sex, so to then offer him sex is like... is he supposed to be saying no?
Finally my answer is mainly sort of based on you actually having to make something up. If he actually is jut casually dating waiting for sex, you called it accurately. If he's being a sweet guy and showing interest and caring for you, then yes, throwing his desire for you in his face and invalidating his genuine feelings is something to make up for.
Which is it?
And what do you mean by 'dating casually'?0