Do you guys think that things like tinder and snapchat makes dating more complicated? I know that when I see that the guy I like is "best friends" with a random girl on snapchat, I get really nervous. Even if they are just friends or something.
I also feel like there's so many rules with dating now too. For example, how the guy apparently needs to text first.. and how you are supposed to wait a certain amount of time so you don't look too eager. I don't get it. If you liked someone, wouldn't you be eager to talk to them? Since when is that not a good thing? I don't follow these so called rules anymore, they make no sense. I also don't get why we can't all just focus on ONE person and not several.
I am just so frustrated with dating today... I feel like people are always complicating things and I wish it was simpler! I feel like I'm putting in lot of effort only to get nothing in return! How do y'all feel about this topic of dating?
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It's been turned into a fucking stupid game. Girls want the thrill of the chase, while guys try to show disinterest so they don't come off too eager. I'm sick of it too, it's utterly stupid. I want to show the guy I care about my feelings, I don't want to have to worry about "If I text her 5 minutes after she replied will seem too eager?" I was so fed up with the rules that I just did my own thing. Initially I failed horribly, apparently being genuine with people is looked down upon when trying to get into a relationship. I've had success since then, but I refuse to back to playing "the game". I'm 25 and looking for a woman who knows what she wants, not some little girl who wants her man to jump through rings of fire to win her heart. Women and men need to get it into their heads that this is real life, not movies or TV shows. Unfortunately the media has pushed these ideas into us without us noticing. I mean look at how many guys hit the gym now to get "muscles" compared to 10 years ago...0