Say if you dated someone for an intense 1months and everyday revolved around that one person. Then they rejected you and were so cold about it that it made you question the integrity of the entire relationship...
How long would it take to get over this person? I already workout 6 days a week, I work but somehow they creep into my mind. I'm currently doing no contact but how long would it take to stop hurting?
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Typically the answer is half the time of the relationship (so if you dated for a month, then about 2 weeks). But other factors certainly play into this. If you were to find interest in another partner, certainly the pain of the past relationship would fade much quicker. It seems like your struggle is that even though you work (which helps keep your mind off things for a bit) you need to do something FUN to make up the times you aren't working. Do you like to read? Do you have any type of hobbies? Keeping busy and time passing is really the only thing you can do to make this process easy. Also, avoid "checking up" on them with social media. As curious as you are to see what they are up to AVOID IT! Block them if you have to. And try to avoid showing how hurt you are on social media as well (just in case they are checking up on you ;)1