Me and this guy have both confessed that we like each other. We've been hanging out for a while and I think he's absolutely perfect. He treats me like a queen and we are constantly laughing. But every time I think of a future with him or my feelings for him I get this feeling of panic and anxiety. I'm so scared of falling for him and getting hurt again. I don't want my past relationships to mess up this one because he is honestly one of the nicest men I've ever met. How can I keep myself from having a total freak out or for self sabotaging this because I'm scared?
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Imagine, if you had an unfortunate road accident while driving your car, is it reasonable to panic every-time you think about driving? No one can be too sure about such things, all you can do is have faith in your relationship and take a dive!
by the way you MAY hire a personal spy to dig up his TRUE past and check his behavior behind your back. He can even provide you audio/video recordings of your friend/crush. Although it's immoral to do so, but it will definitely help you in making conclusions, whether he has the potential of hurting you or not.0