So, I've been on this girl's class for about a year now (college). I've always thought she would be one of the few girls I'd like to date from all my class, but never really considered it. However, this year I think I've been developing feelings for her (I'm still not sure of how deep these feelings are). Even though I think most guys wouldn't find her one of the most good-looking girls from my class, she has a GREAT sense of humor, is always laughing and is really genuine and pure. She's great. We've been talking a bit more this year, but not all that much.
I definitely have a low self-esteem, but I think I'd be willing to overcome that to pursue a relationship with her. I'm not the most good-looking guy at all, but I wouldn't say I'm ugly. I'm also very shy, but I've been opening up to her a bit at a time when I talk to her. My problem is: I don't know if she's out of my league. Also, I don't know how to approach her more. I know we have 2 or 3 things in common and I've been using that to talk to her, but I don't really know what else to talk to her about in order to get to know her even better.
What do you guys think? Is she too good for me? Do you know any cases like this where the guy/girl actually is able to date the girl/guy they thought was too good for them? Also, any hints on what I should talk to her about?
Thank you very much in advance!
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Of course I think you have chances with her!! In your description, you never said why she would be too good for you, so I think she is just fine. Also I don't think anybody is too good for you. Everyone is on the same level. Also, in terms of what to speak to her about? You say she has a great sense of humor, use that as a source tell her funny jokes and stories. However, the only way that you will really be able to talk to her about things and make her have a good time is the ask her about what she likes and enjoys. That is the only way. Also finding other things in common will help you break your shy shell. Although this may sound a bit girls, you have to fake it until you make it. I mean that you have to pretend to be confident until you are. trust me! I know!! I really hope this helps!1