Hey I have a problem. I'm not physically attracted to to my boyfriend. He is so in love with me he even told me before that he actually loves me. He knows that I don't feel the same about him but he said that he will try harder to prove to me how much he cares about me and what not. He is even considering me in his plans for the future but I don't want to think so far in the future yet. What do I do? And I'm not being shallow we said from the start that we are not each other's type, but I guess he learned to love me. I just don't feel the same.
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Hmmm. Well if you don't love him you can't fight it. I have been in the same situation and honestly it just usually does not disappear. I know physical attraction isn't the only thing that's important but it really is still important because without it it's harder to be intimate and without intimacy a relationship gets boring and feels empty. Just ask yourself if you love him and can ignore the physical part. If the answer is no then I would move on, there is a guy out there who would love you just as much but you would have an attraction to. It sucks to go through I've been there!0