So I am feeling the relationship I am in... A lot. I am just interested in other people's opinions about someone who is an avid smoker.
The guy is in his late 20's.
Served our country for six years as a Ranger.
Has ADHD and says his mind runs 100miles a minute.
He says he smokes to relax his mind for the most part but also enjoys how it makes him feel.
He smokes about three times a day depending... Taking two to three hits off the bong ea. time.
He has a full time job making about 50g a year.
He has his own business on the side doing what he loves (machinery work).
His family knows he smokes & they are okay with it.
He is looking at going back to school to expand his knowledge in his field.
I used to smoke frequently but that was to haze what the reality was in front of me but I am happy in life now and have no real need to smoke often. I do occasionally smoke but maybe once a month or so...
Has anyone dated an avid user? Did it ruin your relationship? Is anyone on her a functional smoker? How are your emotions in a relationship? Does it fog your feelings? Anyone on here have ADHD and use weed as a medicine? Is anyone on here a parent and do you smoke weed while you are also caring for your children (just curious)?
I really want insight here. I am not asking him to change but I want to understand...
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I think the major problem with substance abuse that people often overlook is when you don't have the substance how do you feel? People don't understand that if you need something to make you happy even if it is a cigarette than your feeling's are already cloudy. I say this because how do they treat you when all of a sudden they can't have a hit or a cig when they need one they get bitchy and edgy without realizing they are hurting the people around them. Yes I have been with several women that were avid user's and would I do it again? HELL NO!..0