My best friend and I started dating last month, he lives in Vancouver so we are starting off with a long distance relationship, I've known him for 5 years so I got to know him really well, but the last year was when we started taking our relationship to the next level, flirting etc. having a long distance relationship makes this transition from friends to couple pretty hard, I always question if he actually loves me or just loves me as a friend, I know it's silly but it's always on the back of my mind, why would he choose to be with me now after all these years? I constantly question if he really loves me the way I want to be loved or if it was just convenient for him. He makes sure to text me every morning and call every night he tells me I'm the love of his life, but it's only been a month how could he possibly already know that? We haven't even had sex, I need help! How do I know it's really want he wants?
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I think he told you exactly what he wants already. It's not unlikely that he loves you over the past 5 years he has seen and witnessed all that is great about you from your personality to a possibly caring nature. Men do notice things unlike what is normally portrayed about them. It's also quite normal for you to feel this way all new relationships are hard and if you add in the long distance it's even more difficult. I'm guessing you never saw him as more than a friend until he started flirting with you? You mention sex is that something you want with him or were you just mentioning a fact?1
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