Do I give up and move on or call him?

I went on a coffee date with a guy and afterward he said he wanted to see me again and emailed me this: "Thank you for meeting me. You are intriguing and beautiful. I look forward to seeing you when I get back in town." I replied and thanked him for coffee and wrote that I was impressed with what I saw. It's been three weeks and I haven't heard from him. He commutes between two towns on a weekly basis and is only in my town for three days a week and works most of the time. It also sounds like he could be gone for stretches at a time here and there. Was this a nice brush off and is this guy full of B. S. or should I touch base with him? I'm not used to chasing guys.

  • Contact him
    Vote A
  • Forget about him
    Vote B
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What Guys Said 1

  • Well step 1 is to fall apart on the internet.

    Step 2 is to get bad romanticizing advice.

    Step 3 is to get even worse "doomsday" advice that's not even realistic.

    Step 4 is to give up.

    Step 5 is to try again.

    Step 6 is to give me a high five.

    Step 7? Well... that's a secret. ;)

    Then finally you're done.

    • Thank you. So you think I should contact him?

    • Yeah!

    • Thank you

What Girls Said 1

  • contact him. trying is better than regretting.

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