She's a nice girl, very attractive and likes me. We live in the same dorm and she made a move and she spent the night in my bed and we kissed. The issue is as I kissed her and cuddled I thought of another girl who hurt me multiple times and rejected me. I've been obsessed with her for year and a half but she never felt the same and now I have this guilt cause everything I do with this girl i fantasize I'm with someone else.
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personally I've been there. the best thing for both of you is to take a break. you can't give her your all unless you've moved on and since you think of her while you're with this other girl its clear you haven't. but it will hurt this new girl more the longer you drag it out. you have to figure out what you want to be able to move on.0