You're picky, you meet someone online who you click with... which is unusual for you. You start to talk almost all day every day and on the phone every night. This goes on for a month... work starts getting busier so you contact them less... they start telling you they'll f##k another because you're obviously playing them. You don't talk to them for a while but they apologize and you forgive them. You chat for another two months and during this period they make excuses not to meet up and then say they will but never set a date... they also start to say they'll sleep with others because you're probably chatting up others... they apologize and insist it was said due to their insecurities. You forgive them countless times even though it hurts because you like them... how long would you put up with this behavior for if you really like the good side to them? Would you personally only let them get away with it the once or not even that? If they asked to meet up purely as friends after three months of acting this way, would you agree or cut them off completely even if you still like them?
Most Helpful Guy
The good side of them doesn't sound worth the bad, the bad being credible threats to go sleep around on you.
People have stuff in their lives, sure, so you shouldn't string them along but they shouldn't say 'take me out Friday or I go fuck someone else for a while'. I don't know if I'd even enjoy friendship with someone like that, they might pull similar shit if you're just going to hang out!1