My bf and I have been dating a little over a year now and it is his best female friends birthday. He is taking her to the movies for her bday. When I asked if I could come along he said no because she kind of just wants to hang out her and him for his bday. I was like umm excuse me she doesn't have that right they aren't dating she can't just request a date to the movies with just the 2 of them. Am I wrong to feel hurt and pissed off about this? I met her plenty of times before she we know each other. It is just odd that my bf is completely fine with taking her to the movies even after I asked to come along he is willing to accommodate her feelings over mine when that seems backwards to me. What would you say to your SO if that wa you and how would you feel? I also feel that if it is innocent they don't have anything to hide therefore I should be allowed to come.
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It's her birthday. If she's not really friends with you why would she put herself in a third wheel position which shifts all the focus on you two on her own birthday?
Instead of asking if its all innocent with nothing to hide why shouldn't you be allowed to come, you should be asking yourself if you trust your boyfriend enough to let him spend 2 hours alone in public with another girl.0