Please help me out here, ladies... This girl i'm seeing, texts me earlier saying "I just want to tell you i really like your company and our conversations and spending time with you... and i would love to become one of your close friends... i just don't feel the chemistry between us."
So, i think... friendzoned...
Now, We see saw each other right after that (just now, in fact) and at first, i'll admit it was a little awkward because i didn't know how to "process" the message. (it was a text message)
But then we went out... despite what she said, her body language told me otherwise. By the end of the night we were holding hands and kissing and cuddling and generally, everything the opposite of "wanting to just be friends".
A few times, she took MY hand and kissed ME... granted there was alcohol involved, but it was like, everything she was holding in was coming out... (she is a shy-ish girl)
I don't know what to make of the situation here... so Ladies, please shed some light on the issue, because i don't know how to make sense of the situation... does she really just want to be friends, or is she just unsure of what's happening, and/or testing me to see if i'm serious?
I should mention she is new to relationships... Like me...
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Boy.. My little boy. Let me teach you something: She only does that because she knows she can call you anytime, because you will be there. 99% of girls like to have a 'beloved friend' who can cheer her up and make them feels special. When you do that, you boost her EGO. STOP! Right now. If you love her, just desapper for a time. Sorry for my English Im typing from my phone. Doubts?1