I've never broken up with a girlfriend, I've always been dumped. In all cases she was crying and telling me that I'm a great guy and I'll find that woman I'm supposed to be with. I've had several older women tell me how great of a guy I am and try to set me up with their daughters. Recently I've had a very close female friendship end. I had feelings for her and she none for me. Again she tells me how great I am. And she hopes she doesn't lose me. I'll find that woman, it's just not her.
So if women tell me how great of a guy I am. Why does it always end the same? By them crying and telling me I'm a great guy but not the one? I'm thoroughly confused. Are they all lying? Am I just missing something here?
I've heard this twice now in the last month. From two different women. One trying to set me up with her daughter and another after a woman said yes to a date and then tells me this a couple of days later while retracting on the date.
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I could be wrong but it seems as though those women don't have any strong genuine feelings for you. Sure, you may be a great guy. You may be the greatest guy, but if they don't feel any attraction towards you then it's just not going to work. The girls crying may be due to them losing someone great. Almost like losing a very good who they have to let go of. Or, like another user said, they could just be playing the victim.0