I held her hand for part of the date. She even was throwing out ideas on her own at the end of the date and we kind of agreed to a third. Although we haven't quite worked out the details totally. So I think she enjoyed herself and we seem to get along well. lol. We hugged instead at the end. She said she was sick during the date so maybe she didn't even want to kiss me. Part of me thinks she wants to move slow, which is fine. What are some signs she does want to kiss me? Does the guy always just kind of have to go for it and hope she reciprocates?
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Ok three schools of thoughts here, #1 I think she is not into you, all that much. Now before you, get mad and slap me with a white glove and challenge me to a dual. Statistics show, most women kiss a guy on the first two dates if she's really attracted to the guy. #2 She is waiting for you to role up your sleeves, spray some Beniaca in your mouth, and give her the move. Sometimes hugging her closely then sliding your hands down to her hips and holding her gently, while gazing in her eyes, and holding your face just at the border of her personal bubble, may give her courage to lean in and lay one on you. Come 90% then she comes 10% remember. #3 she maybe, just want a friend for now, and not ready for the mushy stuff, but yet, I still think this is a farce! My advice call her set up the date, be specific about date and times, if the date goes well, lean in and see if she plants one on you. If your not ready dont rush it, let it happen organically... always, always, always take it slow, it can't hurt.0