My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4-5 months. I told her from the beginning that I was mending a broken heart because I was getting over an ex of 4 years.
Anyways. Everything was going good until one day I had her phone and I saw some text messages from a guy at our college. I was pissed because she was saying that he was the reason she was smiling that day, but after a long thought I forgave her.
Now every blue moon I look at her phone and when you click on messages you can tell she was deleting them because some message threads would disappear after a slpit second. I'm not sure if it's guys or what.
What do you think could be going on?
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Hi! Usually when your gut is telling you there is something wrong..9 out of 10 chance, there is indeed something wrong. If she is deleting messages she is insecure about a conversation. First, you should ask her face to face what is going on. When someone lies you can tell if you focus on eye movement. I learned in my advance psychology class if someone does a rapid eye movement to the left while talking they are telling a false statement. A relationship is based off of trust. If you are having second thoughts or insecurities find someone you will feel comfortable with and that deserves you. :)0