I'm not a confident, extroverted guy. I feel confident sometimes and I feel insecure sometimes. Plus, I'm the perfect archetype of an introverted nerd. People always told me to "always be confident, because girls dig it". And as I said, I'm not a confident guy, it's just not who I am, and as girls always lost interest in me, I began to fake it, and now I'm in a relationship...(Plus, I've noticed that the "girls can sense fake confidence" crap is a myth. They appear to do so because the guy gives it all away in his body language...)
Sure yeah, having a relationship is awesome, but dammit, she doesn't like the real me. I'm pretty sure she'll leave me once she finds out that I'm not a confident guy... I get insecure sometimes, but that'll turn her off, and she will no longer be attracted to me... Should I keep lying to her or just be honest and ruin our relationship?
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Keep it real, be yourself man.
I have found women like my closed off exterior, I come across as mysterious and interesting because I am not easy to get to know and I am not easy to understand.
But once when the breach the castles defenses, there lies an ickle bear that sometimes gets a little bit grizzly.0