I've been single for 5 years. Not because Im hard on the eyes or because Im an asshole or anything. I had a few girlfriends in my youth but they didn't mean anything, more of a status. I didn't know what I was doing, I was young. Then I met this girl in highschool. Was with her all though highschool. I thought I was going to marry this girl. I poured my heart into this relationship and she broke my heart so bad I never really recovered. Im definitely over her but I havnt really viewed woman the same since. I had a rebound girl after her, and after that girl I thought I had something going with this girl I knew in Jr. High. But it turns out she, her words, she "just wanted to have sex with a nice guy for once"... WHAT? okay... Every girl I've dated has admitted to cheating on me, including my highschool sweetheart, or I just straight caught them.
So I have built such a big wall blocking any female interaction. I've been focusing all my energy into my schooling, making money, and working out for the past 5 years. I work In the Auto/Collision industry so its not to hard to avoid talking to girls.
Its been getting harder and harder to avoid you girls... You girls drive me nuts, I get so weak and stupid. I've got so much love to give, I wear my heart on my sleeve and I can't help it. I love you girls so damn much. I want to find a girl to give this love too, but Im scared itll just end up like every relationship I've had. Me hurt, and girl dont give a fuuuck.
So I guess my question is:
What would you think when you find out a guys been single for a long time? Like 5 years. Is it something I should tell you? Should I wait till you ask me about my past? Do I just not talk about it?
Plus, Why do you woman cheat? Is it something Im doing? Is it something Im not doing? Is it because I bad in the sack lol? If so, you woman need to stop faking your orgasms.
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Awww that was like sweet, Id post a question..."Why do guys cheat" becuz I had the same experience as u except my ex cheated on me i thought i was gonna marry him for real, its been 4 months i finally recovered from all the pain and suffering... So i stayed single and i actually like it Im thinking about focussing on my studies and all,,, I think ur doing the right thing trying to work on ur career BUT also try not to push ur self too hard, ik whenever a guy goes through a bad break up he judges every women, from his personal experience, but trust me u'll find someone much better than her...
To be honest, Im scared to love again, and yeah i will one day I'm just waiting, I won't take the relationship too seriously and even if it doesn't turn out well, thats fine with me becuz its life and thats how it goes, but the day u meet the love of ur life, it will be better than any other person u've dated
I seriously didn't know guys get really hurt if women cheat on them, I've never cheated I won't be becuz I think of it as both point of views,,, but not all women are the same, some women cheat becuz they are just naturally a hoe, and they just can't stick to one guy,, So don't worry I'm sure u'll love again, never loose hope :) 5 years isn't too long, i've seen people wait for 7/8 so i think ur gonna find her soon
Just spend some time being single too, finish off things u need to, workout make some abs lol cuz they're hot and then yeah when u find the love of ur life u'd miss being single too lol ik that one for sure
Lmao fake orgasms hahahah I don't know how u do that2