Is he just trying to be nice hence his behavior? ANY IDEAS?

talking to this guy can be very difficult because our conversations quickly become awkward and quiet because he just never fully contributes. literally our conversations consist of me doing most of the talking and coming up with things to talk about, while he answers and/or asks the same thing back. and obviously i can't think of too many things to say so it gets quiet and he pulls out his phone and starts playing with it.

he also avoids me and its quite obvious. then the rare moments he comes to me on his own, smiles when he sees me, sits with me on the bus on his own
he's not like this with other girls I've seen their interactions facebook/instagram he just seems like a different person

when we talk he acts clueless about things i know he knows very well. he also shows lack of interest in things i know he really likes just by the way he talks. then when it comes to weekend plans he never tells me the full truth about what he did or is doing i usually see when a post comes up on instagram of what really happened. when it comes to me talking about my weekend plans at times he starts questioning me on things i wouldn't ask him so im not sure if he's interested or just trying to maintain a conversation he asks things like with who, where (party or whatever), what are you wearing (halloween party)

then when we talk sometimes i also feel like he's not interested in talking to me by the quietness and just this arora around him, then other times he seems really happy when he talks to me even though he gets really quiet so i dont know whats wrong with him

ps we both are 20


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What Guys Said 1

  • He seems to feel awkward around you... why would he keep silent?


What Girls Said 1

  • Sounds like you don't have any chemistry and he isn't that interested in you. I'd back off and spend your time and energy on something more worthwhile.