So there's this guy in school and we've been sorta "dating" i guess for like 2 months now and I'm a bit suspicious because when we first started talking some of my friends told me that he was just talking to me because he was desperate for a relationship because all his friends had relationships. I'm not really giving myself 100% in this relationship because I'm afraid that he's just playing me but then again what if he's not and I just wasted an opportunity with this guy?
Is he playing with me?
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What made your friends have this impression of him? I think him "playing" you is different from being "desperate". I'll give you my thoughts on the latter. If he approached you out of desperation I think one sign would be he asked out several other girls right before you, this would should he just wants to be with someone. Or if he has a lot of girls on the "back burner" as in he has some girls he has lined up if you two fall through. I think you should also look at things he's said and done that shows the opposite and would show he cares for you and IS interesting in your relationship and values it.
I'm assuming you're both still in high school as it says under 18, in which case I do think many guys that age are quick to jump into relationships, as are girls that age. I would go slow but not give up on him yet.0
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