I met this guy i reallyyyyy like and he feels the same way about me we just recently met each others parents and plan to get together soon but he's says he's holding back because i smoke weed. He is a good guy he doesn't want anything to do with drugs i dont mind that at all. His family is very traditional by the way. Im not an addict i could stop at anytime but its just something I've always been doing should i just stop smoking or break things off with him
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Personally, I don't smoke weed, nor would I date a girl who does. It's just something that I don't agree with, plus the smell makes me nauseous for some reason.
That being said: I don't really care if anyone else wants to smoke it. It's just not something I would do, and I don't want to be around it. I'll hang out with pot smokers, as long as they're polite enough not to do it around me.
In your situation, your response is really up to you. This guy doesn't like marijuana, and he was honest about the reason for his hesitation. If he's like me, and just doesn't want to be around it, maybe the two of you can work around that? Talk to him, and find out if he would be alright as long as you don't smoke around him.
If that won't work, then you have to decide what you want to do. Either you'd like to quit smoking, or you don't. If you think he's worth giving it up for, then maybe you should consider it. Don't let him "force" you to quit, though; it has to be your decision.
If you want to continue smoking, and he's not alright with that, it might be best to go your separate ways. It's really up to you to decide.2