What matters more when trying to attract a girl (in my case), or a guy? Looks, personality, or both?
- LooksVote A
- PersonalityVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Both are important. It's hard to accomplish one without the other. Looks are more like your wingman. You typically get a girl's attention by looking good. But if there's not charisma, if she doesn't like your personality, she's not gonna be interested enough to let you in. Unless she's just looking for sex, then looks are probably the key factor. However most women are looking for, or at least open to the idea of, being in a relationship. So having a good personality, or rather the type of personality she's attracted to, are important. Then looks. Mutual feelings, interests, beliefs are the most fundamental for a relationship, but being physically attracted to each other is also extremely important for staying together, making it last.0