If you meet someone on okcupid is that a date?

i guess i am notcing that i don't know what a "date" is. if i met someone on okcupid and we make plans to meet in person for coffee is that a date or is that just meeting/hanging out? if they make plans to meet up and do something a second time is that a date? i'm so confused. do guys tend to think its a date when they meet someone from the internet?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I think a date is a date when both people agree that it's a date. So, in a nutshell, I just see dates where I'm specifically invited or when I invite someone specifically to date. This is me, I don't know about the others.


What Girls Said 1

  • It sounds like a date to me hun.. When plans are being made to meet somewhere is a date/outing (however you want to call it)