there's this guy who liked me (or so I thought) and I liked him. I showed him my bad side, everyone has one, my bad side is when i get drunk to avoid my problems. I do not do it often!
but It's just not good and i'm sure that freaked him out. I don't get mean when I drink, I'm just not the same person, I get ovely emotional and needy. And I think that turned him off, and I wouldn't blame him. I must have told him a lot of things that I normally wouldn't have, but I don't know because I blacked out. I can't stop thinking that if I went back in time and be on my best behavior, he would still want to keep in contact with me.
How do I stop beating myself up about this? I feel so embarrassed and stupid. He definitely lost interest, and my self esteem is in pieces, I don't know what to do.
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All I see here is assumption. For all you know, he probably didn't even notice you while drunk. All you can do is hit the reset button and approach him when you are sober. If he brings up details about that time, NOW you know, they you can choose your next course of action. Play it off as a joke, or keep beating yourself up. You assumed he liked you, now you are assuming he doesn't or is turned off. You haven't given any facts as to if any of that is actually true.1
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