My cousin just got married and his wife's younger sister (my age, college) seems into me and has been for years (even though we only see each other 4 times a year at family gatherings). She has had a boyfriend for 2 years (he's away at college) but still seems into me. Yesterday we had a family gathering and she was so happy to show me a bunch of photos from her vacation.
At the end of the night she gave me a hug goodbye in front of her family. I was the only one she actually gave a hug to out of 18 others there. Later that night I requested her on instagram and she accepted and followed me. She had her boyfriend's name, the date they got together, and a heart on her instagram profile description but after I added her she suddenly erased her boyfriends name.
I really like her back but don't know if it is appropriate to 1... have feelings for my cousin's wife's sister, and 2... see someone who has a boyfriend. Thoughts?
- Appropriate to dateVote A
- Not Appropriate to dateVote B
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I don't think the non-blood relation counts. Fair game, in my opinion. However, she would need to definitively end her thing with her boyfriend first. I mean winning over the other guy is great and all, but starting a relationship with someone before she's ended hers should give you immediate cause for concern, doesn't it?2