I've always been told you should have sex when you're ready and when it's with the one you love. I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and a half, and he already wants to get physical. The other night he put my hand on his genitals, because he said he wanted to prepare me for what's to come and he wanted to ease me into it. I was a bit uncomfortable at the action but I let him know. He said he'll give me a few more weeks. No that's still way too soon for me even! I told him to take it my pace and he said he would be happy doing so. I don't want to be pressure and pushed into what I don't want to do but I feel like he's not getting it. He tells me I'm unaffectionate when I refuse to touch him the way he wants. We kiss, cuddle, give back massages... little things. But he keeps telling me about his dreams he has of me and how fun it could be. We already tell each other we love eachother but I don't want that to be the word for, take me my body is ready. How do I reciprocate to this?
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My own experience, and several times with virgins, was that we never got any further than we were at 6 weeks in. If you're not ready after a couple months, its not 'too soon' in the relationship, you're just -not ready- at that stage in your life.
That's my experience any way.
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