What can I do? I find women are so cold and standoffish. I'm actually a nice guy but I always get the cold shoulder. I'm not a player (such a sick joke), and Im getting so lonely. They check me out, but they seem afraid to get to know me or give me a chance. I'm ready to give up. Why don't women want to meet a charming guy who approaches them?
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Just like men can be intimidated by a beautiful woman, women can be just as intimidated by a man. Most women do not approach men. A lot of women are afraid of rejection or just do not have the confidence in themselves to approach men. I was single for six years and finally this summer, I met a wonderful man. I was friend with him for two months. At first, I had no other interest in him besides friendship, but after getting to know him, found that he had every quality I could ever want in a man. I started flirting with him pretty heavily, but he did not think I would be interested in him in that way, being that he was old enough to be my father. I cold not pass up the chance of seeing if there was something there, so I made the first move and do not regret it at all! So, I guess I am just saying, do not give up! I have been there. That is a long time to be single, but you will find someone! Probably when and where you least expect it!0