I'm a pretty woman... I'm tall, 5'10" have pretty blue eyes, decent skin, I'm a little over weight but not fat by any means. No guys ever approach me in bars or in general even. I dont know why. I'm 25 and have been technically single for almost 3 years... I'm sick of being alone. Any tips on how I can find and keep a decent guy?
Why do I never get asked for my number or asked out?
What Guys Said 8
Guy's nowadays have lost their ability to be a man. The whole approaching and picking up has almost died.
So don't take it personally.
Maybe stop trying to get pickedup in a bar.
Just stop looking and it will happen by itself.1
Nope! \o/ .0
Well first off you don't want to meet guys at the bar.
Second you should go and do things alone sometimes. Guys may be too intimidated to approach you when you're in a group.0
Tryvto look nice, no mean frown, and be more social yourself. Someone will say something to yoj one day.0
Can I have your number?0
Why don't you ask a guy out yourself?0
what if a shorter guy asked you out?0
You sound alright to me! It's not great meeting people at bars, not if you're looking for a decent guy to keep. Mixing with lots of people and so increasing the number of potential partners is good though, the problem for lots of people is time. If you have time then that's great take up some hobbies where you can meet people, if not you could try an online dating site, avoiding things like tinder which are really only any good for hook ups.0
What Girls Said 1
Maybe stop looking for someone in general. They say when you don't look, and aren't expecting.. that's when things happen. Try going out more with friends and meet their friends, go to events, join clubs or community activities... put yourself out there! Stop waiting for someone to come to you :)1
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