I'm black and adopted, my family is white and I live in an all white community, I'm a pretty interesting fun person and as awkward as it is to say about myself I'm pretty attractive too, but for some reason I find it really hard to catch the interest of guys.. I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend all my friend don't seem to have trouble finding guys, no one ever really says its because I look different but I really can't think of another explanation as to why my dating life is so lacking.. I don't really know how to phrase this as a question I guess I'm just wondering if skin color really matters that much to you guys? As there are no cultural differences and I'm a pretty nice girl, what else could be wrong?
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Umm, I think a lot of guys just have preferences that don't include blacks. My friend wouldn't date one pretty much no matter what. I think it is pretty ridiculous of him, and slightly racist, but I guess sometimes taste is just taste. I have been with a few black girls, and I find any culture has beautiful people. I am sorry this is your experience, but it usually says more about the people judging you than it says about yourself. Just make an effort to meet more people, try online dating, and don't be afraid to ask guys out. I'd probably go on a date with you... but that doesn't mean we would end up together forever lmao.0