Should I settle for the guy that has me as his gf is ready to get married & have kids (so am I) but isn't there when I need him (esp when I am ill), the only 'nice' word he ever called me was 'sexy', no romantic gestures --no flowers no gifts for birthday, Christmas, nothing! But , the sex is awesome, great chemistry, says he loves me (but his actions shows otherwise) he is handsome, he introduced me to his folks & he takes me out often but he argues a lot,
Whereas the other guy is younger, but he treats me really good, romantic, is there for me all the time when I'm in need, he introduced me to his closest friends, we go out on rare occasions but he is studying & not yet financially secure as the other 1, yet he gets me gifts, we do fun stuff together, he gives me sweet compliments like telling me how awesome I am & how beautiful I look, we have deep talks, I know a lot about him, we have a lot in common, but he didn't give me 'gf status' & never tells me how he feels. Intimate with him as well.
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I'm going to guess guy 1 has been on the scene longer than guy 2? Was guy 1 more like guy 2 when you first started seeing him?
That's the oroblem with guys, a lot of them start off as guy 2 then turn into guy 1, what make you so sure this guy 2 won't turn into guy 1 when he has you all to himself and the excitement fades.
Sorry don't want to depress you but relationships change over time, when you decide just make sure you aren't letting the novelty and excitement of a newer relationship sway you and you are really judging both of them fairly1