Back then, you didn't have to text or talk to your significant other every freaking minute of every day. You had no way of stalking them like you do now with social media, and you didn't have to look at their profiles after a break up. Do you hate it or like it? How often do you text your significant other and is itba drag?
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I quite like it myself. Generally I don't expect to chat all day, every day but I do like to get a message every morning saying 'good morning.' It just lets me know that I'm one of the first things my girlfriend thinks of in the mornings :)
Then if we have something to chat about then we can chat and if not then it doesn't bother me just to stop texting for a bit. Even blatantly saying "I don't really feel like texting at the moment. I'll talk to you later!" is totally reasonable. :)
Profile stalking is a difficult one because it's never really bothered me. I've only had one breakup and I cared about the person so occasionally I'd just have a quick look to see how they were doing. (we ended on bad terms but you never really get over someone until at least half a year later)
That's my opinion on it anyway. :)2