Is it weird that my friend and my ex lover (who I still have feelings for) still hang out together because their kids (from different baby mama and dada's) get along?
If I knew that a friend had feelings for someone I would back off and let them be together but she has been this way, right from the start and it ended up putting a strain on me trying to establish something with him with her trying to do the same thing.
The poor guy only ever wanted to be friends with us in the first place.
When he told me he did not want anything serious that was fine, but it got hard having to hang out after that then that situation as well. I opted out. Did it to keep me sane lol.
Another mutual friend of ours mentioned her mentioning a situation like this to her. Wondering if she should pursue? My friend was surprised and even mentioned to her friendship comes first.
Surprised someone would even wanna pursue someone their friend has been with. I would never do that to a friend. It's to personal. Even if it was not a serious thing.
It seems silly that this got like this to me. We have not even known the guy for they long. Shakes head.
Never thought I would end up in a situation like this. Especially in my 30's lol.
I do understand if their kids get along they would want to hang out because of that regardless.
Just do not trust her motives and that she may end up disrespecting my feelings is what is getting to me.