Hey everyone, I just wanted to get some advice on why I feel like I have to fight for my boyfriends attention. We argue sometimes but, when I try to talk to him he ignores me for hours and i'm left there waiting for him to talk to me and it makes me feel alone, like I can't talk to him and he's like when I get mad I ignore you and that's how I am and I understand we aren't perfect and I love him for who he is. He calls me names sometimes and make me feel like i'm wrong for feeling this way. When I talk to him about anything when he's mad he just stays on his phone the whole time while i'm talking and when I tell him that i'm going to get up and leave his house and go back to my house, that's when he starts to care but why should I have to leave his house for him to see that us not communicating is hurting us and I've told him this before.
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Your boyfriend should never insult you and you shouldn't insult him. That's a sign of an unhealthy relationship. What Error_204 said is pretty spot on.
If you have no communication, your relationship will fail. Your boyfriend sounds immature. Tell him outright that if he can't talk to you about his feelings, then you plan to leave. He may show like he cares again but it'll probably just be a mask so don't fall for it. I would recommend leaving him.0