my boyfriend meets up with a female friend every Tuesday evening, he picks her up at 6:30. he books every Tuesday evening out so he can meet up with her and take her to get macdonalds or something but he never books out time to spend with me and he will still meet with this girl even if it means that we won't be able to see each other for about a week! will this relationship last (mine and his)? because i feel like he is putting her first and cares more about meeting up with her than he does about meeting up with his own girlfriend! i am worried that they are up to stuff behind my back as we have been going out for a month and i found out from the girl that he takes her out every Tuesday evening! he didn't tell me himself which i am upset about!
or am i just being silly?
please help! it will be very much appreciated!
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Before you do anything you can't unchange, think about this; we have been going out for a month. Do you think that's enough time to figure out everything about a person? The reason he does this is because it's normal for people when they get into relationship to not met everyone or know everything. I keep my friends separate because I know they will not click and the last thing I want to do is chose between two friends. Worst situation every; instead tell him you would like to spend more time with each other. I have a friend and we would met every Saturday for coffee; we talk to each other because we enjoy each others company0
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