I've been with my boyfriend 7 months and during the first few months of the relationship I stayed at his house a lot, but recently he had been staying at my house more than I have at his mainly because of convenience since I live in the city. A close family member died a few weeks ago and last time I was at his house I was lying down thinking about things and I felt quite upset but I hid this from him by saying I wasn't well and would be going home. I don't want this to happen again but it was the birthday of the family member yesterday and I've been feeling fragile :( I don't want to sound selfish by asking him to stay at my house instead having not been to his in a while but I don't want to go and be upset either.
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Honestly sweet you should just tell him :)
Like 'Babe, I know I hadn't stayed at yours in a while and I want too stay round soon just I'm feeling really fragile lately what with it being the birthday of... Yesterday. That okay?'
I'm sure he'll be perfectly understanding, hope you're okay!0